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Joy of the Family Monthly Reflections

 

JULY 2017 - JOY OF UNITY & COMMITMENT

“In the family, we learn how to live as one." N.194

 Life as a couple is a daily sharing in God’s creative work, and each person is for the other a constant challenge from the Holy Spirit.  God’s love is proclaimed ‘through the living and concrete word whereby a man and the woman express their conjugal love.’  (n. 321)

Sexual union, lovingly experienced and sanctified by the sacrament, is in turn a path of growth in the life of grace for the couple.  It is the ‘nuptial mystery.’ The meaning and value of their physical union is expressed in the words of consent, in which they accepted and offered themselves each to the other, in order to share their lives completely.  Those words give meaning to the sexual relationship and free it from ambiguity.  More generally, the common life of husband and wife, the entire network of relations that they build with their children and the world around them, will be steeped in and strengthened by the grace of the sacrament.  For the sacrament of marriage flows from the incarnation and the paschal mystery, whereby God showed the fullness of his love for humanity by becoming one with us.  (n. 74)

Marriage is firstly an ‘intimate partnership of life and love’ which is a good for the spouses themselves, while sexuality is ‘ordered to the conjugal love of man and woman.’ (n. 80)

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JUNE 2017 - JOY OF NEW BEGINNINGS

"Young love needs to keep dancing towards the future with immense hope." (n 219)

The Synod Fathers stated in a number of ways that we need to help young people discover the dignity and beauty of marriage.  They should be helped to perceive the attraction of a complete union that elevates and perfects the social dimension of existence, gives sexuality its deepest meaning, and benefits children by offering them the best context for their growth and development.  (n. 205)

Marriage preparation should be a kind of ‘initiation’ to the sacrament of matrimony, providing couples with the help they need to receive the sacrament worthily and to make a solid beginning of life as a family.  (n. 207)

Both short-term and long-term marriage preparation should ensure that the couple do not view the wedding ceremony as the end of the road, but instead embark upon marriage as a lifelong calling based on a firm and realistic decision to face all trials and difficult moments together.  (n. 211)

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MAY 2017  JOY OF MARRIAGE

“The Church looks to married couples as the heart of the entire family, which, in turn looks to Jesus.” (n. 73) 

The sacrament of marriage is not a social convention, an empty ritual or merely the outward sign of a commitment.  The sacrament is a gift of a commitment.  The sacrament is a gift given for the sanctification and salvation of the spouses, since ‘their mutual belonging is a real representation, through the sacramental sign, of the same relationship between Christ and the Church.  The married couple are therefore a permanent reminder for the Church of what took place on the cross; they are for one another and for their children witnesses of the salvation in which they share through the sacrament.’ Marriage is a vocation, inasmuch as it is a response to a specific call to experience conjugal love as an imperfect sign of the love between Christ and the Church.  Consequently, the decision to marry and to have a family ought to be the fruit of a process of vocational discernment.  (n. 72)

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APRIL 2017 - JOY OF FAMILY

“The Joy of Love experienced by families is also the joy of the Church” (n. 1)

“I thank God that many families, which are far from considering themselves perfect, live in love, fulfill their calling and keep moving forward, even if they fall many times along the way.  The Synod’s reflections show us that there is no stereotype of the ideal family but, rather, a challenging mosaic made up of many different realities, with all the joys, hopes and problems.  The situation that concerns us are challenges.  We should not be trapped into wasting our energy in doleful laments but, rather, seek new forms of missionary creativity.  In every situation that presents itself, ‘the Church is conscious of the need to offer a word of truth and hope…  the great value of marriage and the Christian family correspond to a yearning that is part and parcel of human existence.’ If we see any number of problems, these should be, as the Bishops of Colombia have said, a summons to ‘revive our hope and to make it the source of prophetic visions, transformative actions and creative forms of charity.’”  (n. 57)

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